Never let go loved ones

In life we come accross very less people who actually love us and  care for us, they go out of the way to help us even . If you find someone who cares for you, loves you, never leave them and never let them walk away from you as they are the precious treasures . There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others.

Friends Are A Blessing

I have seen people don't like talking over with friends as they they used to , life has gone  super busy no one has time and there are lots of responsibilities to shoulder and on top all have smartphones to fiddle around with, it is sad but true no one has time for each other . As a result people are tending to  bottle up their  emotions rather than talking over and this is no good .People prefer to text than talk . We are living in society  and communication is big must and that is what is lacking  .
One needs to  pour one's  heart often to the  closest friend / whom so ever  you are comfortable talking to or with whom you  don't feel dejected or feel they may judge you from your emotional/mental state. You need to find someone  who cares for you ..your true friend  as when you talk with someone who cares for you,... you will  feel better. Now you're not all alone with your problems or worries. It doesn't mean your problems and worries will  magically disappear, but at least someone else knows what's bothering you and can help you find solutions. Some people are very shy and they don't like to talk  ..they need to make one friend and with him/her share your emotions.People share their happy life events openly on social media they brought a new dress, new car, new house but when it comes to sharing their problems they don't .. it is okay don't make your issues public but share your concerns with some one whom you like or someone who cares for you .

It is okay you are an adult and can face all problems by yourself but listen you don't have to face everything alone have some friend and share your issues and vice versa you become the strength of each other and solve each other problems and don't have to face your problems all by yourself. Having such a good friend will not only help you feel light at heart but will certainly  help you keep stress away and negative emotions/negativity at bay.
Check your friends list  and feel whom you are the closest to point is just to make the bond go stronger and start sharing your feelings and same time listen to him/her and be never alone again. If you have such a good friend in your life already than you are lucky like me .

Time v/s Priorities

We generally say..
"Time Changes and so do People" but the fact is
"Neither time changes nor people" only thing which changes with the time are "Priorities"
People remain same and so their expectations so key is not to prioritize your schedule to fit every one but to reschedule your priorities so that everything falls in place and life moves the way it should.. ponder a bit on what you are doing and why you are doing? who/what is more important to you and check the need of the hour too and then prepare list :

Priorities
1. ...
2. ...
3. ....

Don't be double minded

Majority of us have a habit of not breaking the comfort zone . Reason is quite apparent no one likes to takes the risks. When people have 'risk' word come in their thoughts that is when they get apprehensive about doing something that can even be their dream venture. They don't know how to go about, let me share what I do is in this kind of scenario (may be it helps someone reading it ) is which  is more or less similar to coming to a fork in the road and get double minded what to do...I  tell myself  take a long deep breath ..feel what is going to happen is going to be happen for my highest good and there can be nothing better thing than this and take my first step with hands folded in tight fist and tell my self all is well all is well .. and believe things take a different shape life gets definitely better than what it was before. Many a times there comes a regret too why did I do this ..this is a temporary regret  later in couple of weeks time one  feels you know what I did was the right thing..so don't get double minded simply take the fork in the road.

Take a small test .. check your presence of mind

Check ur presence of mind.............Take the test.

relax, clear your mind and begin, what's the 1st answer that comes to ur mind???...........


1. What do you put in a toaster?














Answer:
"bread." If you said "toast," give up now and do something else.. Try not to hurt yourself. If you said bread, go to Question 2





2. Say "silk" five times. Now spell "silk." What do cows drink?











Answer:
Cows drink water. If you said "milk," don't attempt the next question.
Your brain is over -stressed and may even overheat. Content yourself by reading more appropriate literature such as Auto World. However, if you said "water", proceed to question 3...



3. If a red house is made from red bricks and a blue house is made from blue bricks and a pink house is made from pink bricks and a black house is made from black bricks, what is a
green house made from?














Answer:
Greenhouses are made from glass. If you said "green bricks," why the hell are you still reading these?? If you said "glass," go on to Question 4.




4. It's twenty years ago, and a plane crashes from 20,000 feet over Germany (If you will recall, Germany at the time was politically divided into East and West Germany) Where would you bury the survivors? East Germany, West Germany, "no
man's land"?










Answer: You don't bury survivors!!! If you said ANYTHING else, you must stop. If you said, "You don't bury survivors", proceed to the next question.




5. Without using a calculator - You are driving a bus from Mumbai to Pune. In Mumbai , 17 people get on, in Pune , 16 get off. Name the driver.














Answer: Oh, for crying out loud! Don't you remember your own name? It was YOU!!



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Try it seriously dont cheat its amazing
A MUST TRY!!!!!!!          ALZHEIMERS'  EYE TEST

(I love this part.. It's absolutely amazing!)

Count every  "  F  " in the following text:

FINISHED  FILES ARE THE RE
SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTI
FIC STUDY COMBINED  WITH
THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS...
(SEE  BELOW)


HOW MANY ?

3....4....






WRONG,  THERE ARE  6  --  no joke.
READ IT AGAIN !
Really, go Back and Try to find the  6 F's before you scroll down.


The reasoning behind is  further down.





The brain cannot  process "OF".

Incredible  or what? Go back and look again!!

Anyone who counts  all 6 "F's" on the first go is a genius.

Three  is normal, four is quite rare. ☺

Love

Maturity

What's maturity?
Definition provided by Buddhist Lamas.
1. Maturity is when you stop trying to change others, but instead focus on changing yourself.
2. Maturity is when you accept people who they are.
3. Maturity is when you understand everyone is right in their own perspective.
4. Maturity is when you learn to "let go".
5. Maturity is when you are able to drop "expectations" from a relationship and give for the sake of giving.
6. Maturity is when you understand whatever you do, you do for your own peace.
7. Maturity is when you stop proving to the world, how intelligent you are.
8. Maturity is when you do not seek approval from others.
9. Maturity is when you stop comparing with others.
10. Maturity is when you are at peace with yourself.
11. Maturity is when you are able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and are able to let go of your wants.
12. Maturity is when you stop attaching "happiness" to material things.

This moment is the only reality

'NOW'

Live in the present

Past, future & present are just the tenses of the mind . In my opinion there are three kinds of people in our society one who like to live in past and they love talking about the past events both happy and sad. Other set of people like to simply dream of future and are simple dreamers as they do not put action to accomplish the dreams and the third category of people are those who become  an example for others to follow, this category people know the knack of being happy and successful as they make use of past experiences and live in present and hence make a worthwhile future . There is no fun brooding over past as it will not come again, what is gone is gone forever, future no one has seen... one plans something and fact is when things happen they happen altogether different what they thought of so best is third category live in now by making use of past experiences, taking action to accomplish the dreams and make our life's the example for others to follow.

Everything happens for a reason

Keep Smiling

        Keep Smiling

You wanna know where your heart is ❤

             If you want to where your heart is ..Look to where your mind goes when it wanders

 

 

For Stronger Bonds ...Communicate

I have seen it many a times, if you let people treat you they want to, they are happy and the moment you check them or treat them the way they treat you, they get badly offended  There is no friendship /relationship more significant than your own self esteem. Do not compromise on this and check them verbally or through a text message. Unless and until you let them know they will take you for granted,  on other hand you will be ruining your health and peace of mind thinking.. why he/she is behaving in particular fashion . Chances are bright you may complete start avoiding them but avoiding is not the solution Best is to convey the way you feel , .be polite while you express The moment you express yourself, if they are your true buddies they will remain with you for good, the bond between you will get much stronger but if they are fake they will not show up. I am certain about one thing that none of us wants fake people/friends around. Forced friendship/relationship is no relationship whatsoever. To some it may appear difficult to convey.. try once like  I did it long time back and adopted it as my habit. You will feel light at heart and happy within.

Some Miracle is about to happen

          Always believe something good is about to happen, some miracle is about happen

Believe in yourself

 

                                     
    

All is in the mind

All the barriers to growth are self-created. Adopt an optimistic outlook and break the comfort zone nothing can stop you in achieving your goals..

Love

I love you, not because of what you have but because of what I feel .. I care for you, not because you need care but because I want to.. I'm always here for you, not because I want you to be with me but because I want to be with you.. by Unknown

 

Nothing Really Matters

                           If you're happy, if you're feeling good, then nothing else matters.

                              Robin Wright

 

 

 

Holding Hands

“Sometimes, reaching out and taking someone's hand is the beginning of a journey.

At other times, it is allowing another to take yours.” ― Vera Nazarian,  

Learn To Control Mind

Our human body is amazing however adverse situation one gets into , body always supports and helps person do what one wants to. When we sleep the body gets rejuvenated and it is again ready to start the activities of the day. One never has to make body understand this is good or that is bad it is the human mind that's the culprit it never likes to listen what one wants. It is strange but yes it is true mind is majority times hard to convince and those who learn to convince the mind they win the battle. Learn to control mind by going to nature and doing meditation so that you are able to get more oxygen which will boat the energy levels. One can do excercises too . Controlling mind is win win situation . learn to control mind and remember that body is already your friend .