Love

Maturity

What's maturity?
Definition provided by Buddhist Lamas.
1. Maturity is when you stop trying to change others, but instead focus on changing yourself.
2. Maturity is when you accept people who they are.
3. Maturity is when you understand everyone is right in their own perspective.
4. Maturity is when you learn to "let go".
5. Maturity is when you are able to drop "expectations" from a relationship and give for the sake of giving.
6. Maturity is when you understand whatever you do, you do for your own peace.
7. Maturity is when you stop proving to the world, how intelligent you are.
8. Maturity is when you do not seek approval from others.
9. Maturity is when you stop comparing with others.
10. Maturity is when you are at peace with yourself.
11. Maturity is when you are able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and are able to let go of your wants.
12. Maturity is when you stop attaching "happiness" to material things.

This moment is the only reality

'NOW'

Live in the present

Past, future & present are just the tenses of the mind . In my opinion there are three kinds of people in our society one who like to live in past and they love talking about the past events both happy and sad. Other set of people like to simply dream of future and are simple dreamers as they do not put action to accomplish the dreams and the third category of people are those who become  an example for others to follow, this category people know the knack of being happy and successful as they make use of past experiences and live in present and hence make a worthwhile future . There is no fun brooding over past as it will not come again, what is gone is gone forever, future no one has seen... one plans something and fact is when things happen they happen altogether different what they thought of so best is third category live in now by making use of past experiences, taking action to accomplish the dreams and make our life's the example for others to follow.

Everything happens for a reason

Keep Smiling

        Keep Smiling

You wanna know where your heart is ❤

             If you want to where your heart is ..Look to where your mind goes when it wanders

 

 

For Stronger Bonds ...Communicate

I have seen it many a times, if you let people treat you they want to, they are happy and the moment you check them or treat them the way they treat you, they get badly offended  There is no friendship /relationship more significant than your own self esteem. Do not compromise on this and check them verbally or through a text message. Unless and until you let them know they will take you for granted,  on other hand you will be ruining your health and peace of mind thinking.. why he/she is behaving in particular fashion . Chances are bright you may complete start avoiding them but avoiding is not the solution Best is to convey the way you feel , .be polite while you express The moment you express yourself, if they are your true buddies they will remain with you for good, the bond between you will get much stronger but if they are fake they will not show up. I am certain about one thing that none of us wants fake people/friends around. Forced friendship/relationship is no relationship whatsoever. To some it may appear difficult to convey.. try once like  I did it long time back and adopted it as my habit. You will feel light at heart and happy within.

Some Miracle is about to happen

          Always believe something good is about to happen, some miracle is about happen

Believe in yourself

 

                                     
    

All is in the mind

All the barriers to growth are self-created. Adopt an optimistic outlook and break the comfort zone nothing can stop you in achieving your goals..

Love

I love you, not because of what you have but because of what I feel .. I care for you, not because you need care but because I want to.. I'm always here for you, not because I want you to be with me but because I want to be with you.. by Unknown

 

Nothing Really Matters

                           If you're happy, if you're feeling good, then nothing else matters.

                              Robin Wright

 

 

 

Holding Hands

“Sometimes, reaching out and taking someone's hand is the beginning of a journey.

At other times, it is allowing another to take yours.” ― Vera Nazarian,  

Learn To Control Mind

Our human body is amazing however adverse situation one gets into , body always supports and helps person do what one wants to. When we sleep the body gets rejuvenated and it is again ready to start the activities of the day. One never has to make body understand this is good or that is bad it is the human mind that's the culprit it never likes to listen what one wants. It is strange but yes it is true mind is majority times hard to convince and those who learn to convince the mind they win the battle. Learn to control mind by going to nature and doing meditation so that you are able to get more oxygen which will boat the energy levels. One can do excercises too . Controlling mind is win win situation . learn to control mind and remember that body is already your friend .

No Comparison Please

We all on this planet are here to fulfill our own indiviual soul's purpose. Some of us enjoy a very lavish lifestyle and other live down the poverty lane. It is what we are here to experience . At times we see a person goes through many set backs and some so not . So point comes when the person going through a rough patch of mife starts comparjng himself or herself to his fellow beings now this is the greates blunder one can ever do to  oneself believe me. Because behind the smiling faces one does not see the pain. May be the person to whom one is comparing is going through amother dark phase of life as each one of us live here our own journey so best is not to comapre ever as when we compare feeling of jealousy , hatred ,deep insecurities follow by default and when these  come in life one looses the confidence to fight hisnor her battle as one has gone very weak by thinking himself or herself on down standards. Best is one should never compare oneself to any one and never get judgmental, if today things are not working in right direction tomorrow they will. Be confident and be optimistic at all the given times.